Talk:Rachnera Arachnera/@comment-25486066-20141006145058/@comment-110.159.190.142-20141202075737

Also I'm dead serious about that BDSM thing being is very disgusting, dangerous and apperantly offensive, You see, research has shown that such a  fetish is not harmless like any other, and in fact is one of the most dangerous kinds of sexial practices there are.

Now, it is true, some research claime that People who engage in BDSM are more likely to have better and good mental health compared to control Participants, claiming that it makes them less neurotic and sensitive to rejection, more extravated, conscientious and open to new experiences and gives people a higher sense of wellbeing. Not to say they are wrong, but however, other and more recent research argue other wise.

This my summary of what I understand and assess in the research:

You see in one such research, such, kinds of sex actully creates more or increases the aggression of individually, and have long lasting psychological, mental and emotional effects on them. In some couples, one of the individualls may become, to obsessed with the prosess that He/she make it a constant habit, routine, or expectation to have that kind of sex everytime. While the other individual or partner, may feel that it is too burdening or physically demanding, and may be likely to can't stand such activities. This can lead to failed relationship and eventually break up of couples, because one partner expects one thing and other, feels that thaey can't fulfill it because it is too much. In other words damaging to relationship.

A research in Canada, found that Practicing such fetishes, actually lead or increases sensitivity to rejection and decreases an individuals concern for others and well-being. This, contradicts the research on BDSM benefits. Sometimes, it increases the person's sexual aggression, and can lead them to be so sexually demanding and violent. In some worse cases, people do become rapist, (and worse yet Serial Rapist) and practice these fetishes and habits while having forced sex, if they can't get it during consensual sex.

Two other researchs, one in  Belgium and Portugal found that such forms of sex can actually, be damaging to a persons physical health. People can get very hurt during such practices and have even be hospitallized after such practices. Now the research does not specify the exect number of people who get hospitalized but it does, speak volumes on the dangers of such sexual practices.

Anyway that's all I have for now I'll get back to you in a week or two, Please feel free to comment  and give feedback.