Talk:Cathyl/@comment-49.145.53.231-20150906171032/@comment-26824352-20150907225251

Quite so. While stronger liminals are certainly daunting, they are by no means uncontrollable. It is in much the same sense as my being able to pick up and handle a chihuahua without breaking its little rib cage.

However, you do have a point: given the animalistic tendencies of liminals, some of them would be a little of a turn-off for the lighter-hearted. That's why some people are un-fond of Cathyl, really. Also the whole beauty ideal not encompassing musculature on women might be playing a part, there.

In any case, you'd just need to be a caring soul and not an inciteful jerk if you were interested in such a relationship. It loses appeal to some because its against our cultural norm to be the weaker or smaller member of the couple; it's expected that the man of the two be the stronger and larger. It's just a little hard for some people to try into the opposite of that expectation.