Talk:Miia/@comment-76.0.29.5-20150717154434/@comment-71.52.192.83-20150719033849

To further this gentleman's point, if he can, Darling (come on everyone in this fandom calls him that) will avoid choosing. This is why he said he wanted to learn to accept everyone's feelings first, as an attempt to buy himself more time. Since he loves everyone equally due to the kind nature that they love him for, he cannot stand the idea of choosing only one, and disappointing all the rest. Furthermore, he also doesn't know whether everyone else could stay with him or not if he does choose, which is also terrifying.

Furthermore, what exactly would marriage change? It is unknown if intercourse would then be legalized. The wife would be living with him regardless of choice. And since marriage is an agreement to live and cooperate together, literally nothing would change if he decides to marry, or who he marries. Therefore, he doesn't have to choose. Ms. Smith has literally dozens of other families to perform this same test on. All Darling has to do is tell Ms. Smith "No. I can't do it. Nothing would change. You don't need me to test this. I choose not to marry anyone" and that should assumedly be the end of the matter.